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Jeanne E. Burlingham

Published: May 17, 2022 Leave A Condolence

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1931-2022 PUTNAM – Jeanne Burlingham, 90, formerly a long-time resident of East Putnam Rd., died May 8, 2022 at Westview Health Care Centre, Dayville, CT. Jeanne graduated high school from Woodstock Academy, and maintained a life-long connection to the Alumni Association, as well as to several former classmates. Her working career was spent at Jacobs… Continue Reading

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Filed Under: Obituaries Tagged With: Brooklyn, Cremation, Crematorium, crematory, CT, cvcc, Funeral, Gilman & Valade, Gilman Funeral Home, Memorial, Park Tribute Center, Putnam, Quinebaug Valley Community College, Westview Healthcare Center, Woodstock, Woodstock Academy

Jason J. Becker

Published: October 30, 2021 7 Condolences

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2000-2021 Putnam – Jason Becker, 21, an avid animal lover and life-long resident of Putnam, CT passed away surrounded by family on October 28, 2021 at UMASS Memorial Hospital in Worcester, MA. Jason was born October 12, 2000 in Putnam and was a lifelong area resident. A student at the Putnam Public School system, Jason… Continue Reading

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Kathleen L. Aubin

Published: September 21, 2020 15 Condolences

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1965 – 2020 Danielson – Kathleen “Kathy” (Crandall) Aubin, beloved wife of Dave Aubin lost her battle with lung cancer Saturday, September 19, 2020 at noon. She was determined to pay her respects to her family for the loss of John Firlick (her brother in law and the man who officiated our wedding in 2013),… Continue Reading

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Loretta S. Lucier

Published: October 1, 2018 4 Condolences

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1927 – 2018 Putnam – Loretta (St. Rock) Lucier, 90, formerly of Alpha St., passed away peacefully on Monday, October 1, 2018 in Westview Healthcare Center from Alzheimers Disease. She was the loving wife of the late Alfred J. Lucier, Jr. Born in Wauregan, she was the daughter of the late Walter and Armeline (Duval)… Continue Reading

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Filed Under: Obituaries Tagged With: Alzheimers Association, Aspinock Historical Society, Bonnie Lucier\, Calling hours, Cremation, Crematorium, crematory, CT, Danielson, Dayville, Funeral, Gary Lucier, Gilman & Valade, Gilman Funeral Home, Interfaith Stitchers, Loretta S. Lucier, Putnam, Quinebaug Valley Community College, St. Mary Cemetery, St. Mary Church of the Visitation, Wauregan, Westview Healthcare Center

Marshall H. Tourtellotte, Jr.

Published: June 18, 2015 44 Condolences

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Woodstock – Marshall H. Tourtellotte, Jr., 71, of Woodstock, passed away Tuesday, June 16, 2015 in his home. He was the beloved husband of Karin (Rosen) Tourtellotte. Born in Putnam, he was the son of the late Marshall H. Tourtellote, Sr., and Florence (Baranski) Tourtellotte. Marshall graduated from Killingly High School in 1962, where he… Continue Reading

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Filed Under: Obituaries Tagged With: Brooklyn, Central Connecticut State University, Friend of Hospice award, Hospice, Hospice Friends Campagn, Jr., Killingly High School, Marshall H. Tourtellotte, New England Association for College Admission CounselingCounselor Award, Putnam, Quinebaug Valley Community College, Woodstock, Woodstock Academy, Woodstock board of Ed

Julia Ashall Marcoux

Published: December 19, 2013 22 Condolences

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August 7, 1928 – December 18, 2013 Thompson – Julia was born in St Helens, Lancashire, England on August 7, 1928 to a hard working family of modest means.  Her father was killed in a coal mining accident when she was eight years old.  Her mother remarried shortly before the outbreak of World War II… Continue Reading

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Jeannette (LaCroix) Ladyka

Published: February 16, 2013 7 Condolences

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1915 – 2013 Putnam – Jeannette (LaCroix) Ladyka, 97, of Matulaitis Nursing Home formally of Butts Rd. Woodstock passed away February 16, 2013. She was predeceased by her husband of 61 years, Joseph Ladyka in 1999. She was born in Southbridge, MA the daughter of Rozilda Benoit and William LaCroix. She graduated from the former… Continue Reading

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Dr. Joseph George Adiletta

Published: July 1, 2012 8 Condolences

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Joseph George Adiletta 1920 – 2012 Thompson – Dr. Joseph George Adiletta, 91, of Vernon Lane, died Thursday, June 28, 2012 at home surrounded by his family. He was the loving husband for over 64 years of Claire (Fischer) Adiletta. Born in Manhattan, NY, he was the son of the late Giovanni and Rosina (Buffardi)… Continue Reading

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Filed Under: Obituaries Tagged With: CT, Day Kimball Hospital, Dr. Joseph George Adiletta, Funeral, Gilman & Valade, Gilman Funeral Home, Hospice of Northeast Connecticut, Marianapolis Preparatory School, Memorial, New York University, North Grosvenordale, Pall Corporation, Pallflex, Putnam, Putnam Heights Cemetery, Quinebaug Valley Community College, St. Joseph Church, Thompson, Valade Funeral Home

Anne Whitman Abry

Published: April 6, 2012 3 Condolences

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Anne Whitman Abry, 80, of Thompson, CT died on January 11, 2012 at her home surrounded by her loving family and cherished dogs. She was born August 28, 1931 in New York, NY, was the daughter of the late Reginald and Adelaide (Flint) Whitman, adored sister of the late Carol Whitman and loving wife of… Continue Reading

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Filed Under: Obituaries Tagged With: Anne Whitman Abry, ASPCA, Barmore Junior College\, Blackstone Valley, Carol Whitman, Chapin School, Concord, Defenders of Wildlife, Derbyshire, Doris Day Animal League, Dr. Austin Flint, Dudley, England, Flint Murmur, Friends of the Thompson Library, Geriatric Providers Couoncil, Gilman & Valade, Humane Society, Jennifer Abry Goldstein, MA, Milford, New England West Highland White Terrier Club, New York, NY, PETA, physiologist, Quinebaug Valley Community College, State Home Care Program, Thimble Club, Thompson, Thompson Congregational Church, Thompson Historical Society, Tri-Valley Elder Services

Philip Ceccarelli

Published: September 8, 2011 Leave A Condolence

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1923 – 2011 Putnam – Philip Ceccarelli, 88, passed into the loving arms of God, Tuesday, August 30, 2011 in the Matulaitis Nursing Home in Putnam. He was born in Southbridge, MA, February 23, 1923 the son of Paulo and Leonida (Tulli) Ceccarelli from Italy. When he was twelve years old, he moved to Fabyan,… Continue Reading

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