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Barbara J. Messier

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1943 – 2019 Putnam – Barbara J. (Heath) Messier, 75, of Killingly Ave., died Saturday February 16, 2019, at Hartford Hospital. She was the loving wife of Gerard Messier, Jr. Born in Spencer, MA, she was the daughter of the late Albert and Elizabeth (Summers) Heath. Mrs. Messier worked for many years at Borden Candy… Continue Reading

Russell “Russ” Everett Avery

Published: 6 Condolences

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Pomfret, CT – Russell “Russ” Everett Avery passed away on Wednesday November 19, 2014 after a valiant two year battle with pancreatic cancer.  He is survived by his former wife, Patricia Avery of Charlottesville, VA; his four children and their spouses:  Stephen and Teresa Avery of Bedford, VA., Christina and John Bowman of Charlottesville, VA.,… Continue Reading

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Planning a funeral is one of life’s most difficult challenges. Yet virtually every culture recognizes the importance of commemorating the life and loss of a loved one with a meaningful ceremony.

We operate the Gilman Funeral Home in Putnam, the Valade Funeral Home in North Grosvenordale and the Park Tribute Center, Windham County’s only crematorium. Funerals don’t just signify that a life has ended, they signify that a life was lived and loved.

Funerals offer survivors the opportunity to mourn their loss amongst family and friends and to begin the healing process. So, what type of funeral service should you choose? Since no two people are alike, no two funerals should be alike. From planning a traditional burial with a wake and church service to a simple cremation in our own crematorium, we offer complete funeral care to all faiths and cultures.

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