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Patricia E. Graffam

Posted By Bill On May 5, 2021 @ 4:08 pm In Obituaries | 17 Comments

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1939 – 2021

Killingly – Patricia E. (White) Graffam, 81, of Westcott Rd., died Tuesday, May 4, 2021 in Davis Place Nursing Home. Born in Old Lyme, she was the daughter of the late Ernest and Cora (Robbins) White.

Mrs. Graffam was employed in the Environmental Services Department at Foxwoods Resort & Casino. Patricia enjoyed collecting frogs and going to yard sales but, above all she cherished the quality time that she spent with her grandchildren and great grandchildren.

Patricia is survived by her children, Ronald Swabby of Uncasville, Frank Swabby of Killingly, Thomas Swabby of FL, Robin Bourey of Danielson, and Renee Graffam of Plainfield; her siblings, Teresa Dow of Moosup, Nancy Huener of FL, Mary Grayley of Plainfield, and Russell White of Baltic; and numerous grandchildren, great grandchildren, nieces, and nephews. She was predeceased by her children, Phillip Swabby and Nancy Graffam and her brothers, James, Victor, and Phillip White.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend a graveside service on Monday, May 17, 2021, at 1:00p.m. in All Hallows Cemetery, Green Hallow Rd., Moosup, CT. Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to the Gilman Funeral Home & Crematory, 104 Church St., Putnam, CT 06260. For memorial guestbook visit www.GilmanAndValade.com.


Condolences for the family of “Patricia E. Graffam”

Condolence from Bonnie & Guy Martinson on May 5th, 2021 4:39 pm

Rest In Peace Pat. Robin, & family please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Call if you need anything. Sending lots of love from NM. Bonnie & Guy

Condolence from Pete and Shirley Trudeau on May 5th, 2021 5:07 pm

We are so sorry for your loss Robin and the entire White family.Prayers and thoughts are coming your way

Condolence from Sharon Deno on May 5th, 2021 5:21 pm

Robin, Ron and Family,
I am so sorry to learn of your Mom’s passing. While all the normal condolences can express how each person feels during this time of grieving, it never quite compares to what each of you are and will go through. I wish you all God’s blessings to help you get through all you will go through. If you need an ear, I am here and will listen, cry, scream, stamp my feet with you. Know that you will all be in my prayers.

Love you guys, Sharon and Jerry Deno

Condolence from Holley beaulieu cna on May 5th, 2021 7:39 pm

I enjoyed caring for you for the past 4 years. I loved talking to you and having our complaining sessions when the day wasnt going good or ur roommate drove u nuts. . You always asked about my son we shared pictures and memories. I know u are finally pain free and at peace old friend. I may you be in heaven looking down always. R.I.P. my old friend u till we meet again

Condolence from Colette Poudrette on May 5th, 2021 8:17 pm

My sympathies to the entire family. May loving memories ease the sorrow of your lose. God bless you.

Condolence from Michelle dasilva on May 5th, 2021 8:31 pm

Rene I’m so sorry for the loss in your mom sending prayers and hugs to the family my condolences

Condolence from Noreen Robbins on May 5th, 2021 8:45 pm

Remembering the good times , when the kids were small and you would visit uncle George and Aunt Ednas,those were good times and good memories I have ,May you Rest In Peace, and watch over your family from above,

Condolence from Alfred E. Mowry on May 6th, 2021 9:46 am

To the family of Patricia E. ( White ) Graffam, I am so sorry to hear of your loss of your Mom, although I only knew 2 of her Children, Renee Graffam and the Late Nancy Graffam as I had the pleasure of working with them in the past, I know how you must feel as I lost both my Parents when I was very young. May Your Mom Rest In Peace, her job here on Earth is over, now it is time to rest. God Bless you one and all.

Condolence from Sandi Robbins McCurdy on May 6th, 2021 10:41 am

I was sorry to of your loss,great memories of growing up with the White family.RIP Pat.

Condolence from Madelyn Robbins on May 6th, 2021 11:49 am

I am very for your loss,and will keep her in my prayers.

Condolence from Madelyn Robbins on May 6th, 2021 11:52 am

I am very sorry for your loss,I will keep her in my prayers.

Condolence from Michele L Bollenbach on May 6th, 2021 12:36 pm

Sending thoughts and Prayers to Robin and the rest of the family at this difficult time. Know you are all in our thoughts and Prayers.

Robin, Wayne
Miche & Mike
Orlando FL

Condolence from Dolly Graffam on May 6th, 2021 2:03 pm

So sorry for your loss. Hugs and prayers to all.

Condolence from Jackie brooks on May 6th, 2021 5:25 pm

May you know that she is with the Lord , and may that bring you peace.

Condolence from Kimberly Graffam Brooks on May 6th, 2021 6:21 pm

Such a wonderful woman with a great sense of humor, though we lost touch many years ago, i will always remember your laugh. Big hugs Renee and the rest of the family.

Condolence from Connie LaMountain on May 8th, 2021 7:01 pm

Pat, We had some pretty WILD TIMES. You will be missed. Robin, Frank,Ronnie,Tommy ,& Renee I’m so very sorry for your loss. Your Mom was AMAZING.. Teresa So Sorry for your loss as well. Sending all my LOVE. AND PRAYERS FOR ALL

Condolence from Doreen Ericson on May 20th, 2021 6:28 pm

My sincere sympathy goes out to each and everyone, love you guys, always keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

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