Known to those who love him as “Mikey”, “Monkey” or “Monk”
1961 – 2012
Pomfret – Michael Hogan, 50, of Putnam Road, died Saturday, July 7, 2012 unexpectedly in his home. Born in San Francisco, he was the son of Lois (Judge) Dapsis of Dayville, and the late Dean M. Hogan.
Michael had a lifelong passion for History, Mathematics and Music. He was also an avid reader and golfer.
“Mensa Mike” enjoyed Friday night game nights, especially when he was beating his mom.
Michael is survived by his brothers, Kyle Hogan of Pomfret and Zachary Klee (wife Donna and children Nicholas & Ainsley) of Long Beach, MS; his sisters, Rebecca Haines (children Jenna, Amanda & Zoran) of Brooklyn, and Samantha Murphy (children Jesse, Adam & Jewel) of Pomfret Center. Further family includes his stepfather Felix Klee (wife Meg Bishop and children Emily, Alena & Elizabeth), and his mother’s husband Larry Dapsis (children Valerie & Scott).
Relatives and friends are invited to a graveside service for Michael on Saturday July 14, 2012 at 12:30pm in Westfield Cemetery, North Street, Danielson. A reception will follow. For memorial guestbook visit www.GilmanAndValade.com.
Rachel Galligan
My sincere condolences to the family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Rachel Galligan
Pam Smith
Mike was a kind and gentle man. There is no doubt how much Mike loved his family and friends. I hope the warmth of his love and light surround each of you in its’ embrace. I feel fortunate to have known him.
Peace and Love
Pam
Pat Hogan
Dear Lois, Kyle, Samantha and Becky, My heart goes out to you all. I so I could be there on Saturday but please know I will be in spirit. While our lives didn’t intersect much after I moved to the west coast, I am glad that Mike and I had a chance to connect every now and then and as recently as this past year.
Mike possessed a family trait of wit, humour and intellect . Peace be with you Mike on this next part of your journey.
Love Pat
Debra Zdanis Christian
Mikey will always be such a special part of life, he owns a part of my heart. He was my Best Pal, a dear heartfelt person that would take the shirt off his back and hand it to you. He made me and my kids a part of his family. He was my scrabble pal, my crossword buddy, my kids tutor (and mine at times when I was going to college) & even my savior at times. He has always been the greatest friend anyone could have the honor of having in their lives, I am truly honored to have had him in mine. Thank you Mikey for leaving a lasting impression for so many, especially for me. You hated fighting and argueing, yet when needed, you were a force to be reckoned with. I only saw that 2-3 times in 20 years, but you did have that defensive line that if someone crossed it, look out! You are in my heart my dear friend & Brother, forever! I love you, and you will always be in my thoughts. Lois, Larry, Sam, Becky, Zac & Kyle, you are all in my thoughts, prayers, and my heart. I love you all.
Louis Champney III
Hey Sam and everyone I am deeply sorry for your loss we will all miss mike very much. Mike was there for me a lot when I was growing up. I remember starting to read just because I saw him read so many books and then I remember he gave me the book treasure island and I remember telling him I hated reading but he got me to read it anyway. Mike was also there for me with school he helped me with a lot of different courses I thought I couldn’t handle but he showed me simple ways to learn and I got it. The most important thing he did for me though was just be there when I needed someone to talk to, when I needed to get away, he was there and I will never forget that my condolences are with you all. May mike rest in peace.
Dianne Williams
Lois
I am so sorry for your loss as one mother to another.
Dianne Williams
JOhn & Donna Snell
Lois, Larry and family
You are in our thoughts and prayers during this very challenging time. We did not know Mike but knew of him in conversations. You will continue in our prayers.
Bless you
John & Donna Snell
John & Donna Snell
Lois Larry & family
May you know you are in our thoughts & prayers during this very difficult time. May his memories remain in your heart forever
John & Donna Snell
Jeff Zdanis
Sam, Becky, Lous, and the whole family, it’s so hard to lose someone so suddenly, especially someone like Mike. His wit and sense of humor could always light a room and make you think outside your normal range of perception, and not just because of his intellect, because of who he was in general. His heavy heart, his sense of humor and his knowledge of life would make you understand things in a way no normal person would. Growing up with Mike around, and having him there as I became a man had a big part in forging me into the man I became. His perspective on the world helped me in my travels and always made it easier when I’d have to leave again because I knew he was at home, helping my mother and brother if they needed it when I could not be there myself. Having him as the Best Man at my wedding was not only a joy, but an honor! His memory will always live on with me, and he is sorely missed! Whatever any of you need, please call me for anything!
Janice Rzeznikiewicz
Dear Lois:
So sad to hear of Mike’s passing. Our deepest sympathy and heartfelt thoughts go out to you and your family.
Jan
Bob and Sylvia Miller
Lois and family,
Please know that our thoughts are with you at this very difficult time. We hope that you can focus on the wonderful memories of Michael as solace during the days ahead.
Bob and Sylvia Miller
Judy & Kevin Connelly
For Lois & family
We were so sad to hear about Mike’s untimely death. Dean spoke about his love for his children and was so proud of them all.
Michael will be in our prayers.
With deep sympathy,
Judy & Kevin Connelly of Osprey Florida
Jeff Bourque
Too soon,10 years could go by and we always could pick up with ease,Mike, you are one of a kind…the world is lessened by by your departure,this birthday lost something without my “day younger cousin” I’ll catch-up on the other side.My heart is with you all at this time. Love Jeff
Robert Van Leeuwen
I never knew Michael but his father, Major Dean Michael Hogan, was an extraordinarily close friend of mine, and an extraordinary man. We served together in Vietnam and, during the years before his passing, spoke almost daily. Dean’s thoughtfulness, kindness, loyalty and sense of honor remain with me to this day and I can only imagine that they lived in his son Michael as well. My condolences to the family, some of whom I had the honor of meeting at Dean’s funeral in Saugerties, NY.
Robert Van Leeuwen
joseph hopkins
god bless you my friend
Marek Luty
I’ve met Mike when I was visiting US during my studies (I’m Polish). It was in 2002. I stayed at Mike’s during that time. I remember him as a very good, friendly and funny person. I have only warm memories about him in my heart. I’m very sad that he passed away. Rest in peace my hippie friend.
Believe me or not, today I was thinking about Mike and tried to google him on the Web.
Then I’ve found his obituary and this web page. He died exactly (!) 5 years ago – personally I do not thing it is only a coincidence. I’ll pray for him, as I believe he „asked” for it today.