N. Grosvenordale – Marguerite “Muggy” (Libera) Tomany, 61, of North Grosvenordale passed away unexpectedly on September 6, 2014. She was the beloved and much adored wife of Michael Tomany for 41 years. Muggy was born and raised in Glastonbury CT, the loving daughter of Yvette (Cote) Libera of Sangerville, ME and the late Henry Libera “Mrs. Tomany” enriched the lives of many children as a Kindegarten teacher at Mary R. Fisher Elementary School. She happily retired at age 58 to spend more time with her family and many friends who shared her love of skiing, hiking and love of horses. Muggy lived her life to the fullest. Mike and Muggy loved travelling throughout the USA and Ireland. They loved skiing, hiking, horse carriage driving and motorcycling. She was a member of the Appalachian Mountain Club and the President of the Southern New England Carriage Driving Association. Most of all, she enjoyed and loved her family. She was the proud, loving mother of Aaron and his wife, Carrie, of Fremont, NH and James and his wife, Chaula, of North Grovesnordale. Muggy adored and found great joy in being the best Grammie to Joshua, Ben, Hanna and Sophia. She was the much loved sister to John Libera, Albert Libera and Linda Libera Anderson, as well as a loving aunt and sister in law. Relatives and friends are invited to visit with Muggy’s family from 4:00pm to 7:00pm on Wednesday, September 10, 2014 in the Valade Funeral Home, 23 Main St., N. Grosvenordale. Burial will be private. Donations may be made in her memory to The Mary R. Fisher Elementary School – Marguerite Tomany Fund or to a charity of your choice. For memorial guestbook visit www.GilmanAndValade.com.
Liane Libera Hennessey
Muggy will always be with us in our hearts. We know she was loved by Mike and her family to the fullest. We will remember the joy she lived life with and her caring heart. She made a difference for the better to all she shared this brief life with and we send our love to Yve and my cousins Al, John, and Linda as well as our love to Mike and the boys.
Carol Rossetti
Our deepest sympathy to the Tomany family. She was an amazing woman who nurtured the “unique-ness” of every child who entered her classroom. Mug lived and loved “BIG” We will miss her greatly.
The Rossetti Family
Deborah Bukowy
Muggy and I shared many happy sleep overs. Such a joy! My sincere condolences, to your entire family. Muggy is now the Angel on your shoulders. Peace and comfort, to all of you.
Bob and Denise (Jacques) Hammond
May your loving memories help you all through this very difficult time. We are so very sorry.
Heather
So sorry about your loss. She was a wonderful teacher, mentor, and friend. She made such a wonderful impact on my family (especially my daughter). She will be in our hearts and memories forever. She is deeply missed.
Jan Gibb Hamilton-Sherwonit
I was so saddened to hear of Muggy passing. God must have had an emergency need for her in heaven. My condolences to all.
Madeline Leone
Our hearts ache with sadness over Mug’s tragic passing, but her magnificently spirited zest for life will remain with us. May her family’s wonderful memories give them comfort now and in the years to come.
Pat Mann
I’m so very sorry to hear about Mug. We will all miss her. She always was so happy at an event no matter what was going on.
Denise Jussaume
We didn’t call her Muggy here at The Fitness Studio.., She was just Marguerite. One of the nicest ladies I have ever meet. I will miss here her talk about her travels, horses and grand kids.
Such a huge loss for her family, so very sorry.
Heaven has gotten an other angel from TFS!
Christof, Lauren, and Joseph Chartier
We were so saddened to hear the news. We are thinking of you and praying for you during this difficult time.
John and Adrienne St. Cyr
We are shocked and saddened by this terrible news. Our hearts go out to Mike and all of Muggy’s family. We loved her as much as she loved you.
We cherish the memories of time spent with Muggy and with you.
We are here for you if you need us at all. Love, John, Adrienne, and Evan St.Cyr
Doug Boughton
Mike and Family, I am so very sad over the loss of, may I say, our Muggy. First of all, Mike is one of my favorite people, always fun, up beat, always a humerous outlook on life, and Muggy was his perfect mate. I so admired her spirit, always willing to take on a challenge, never a quitter, always fun but balanced, concerned for others, a wonderful person. This is such a loss, but things being as they are, I know all of us cherish knowing her and all she left us with, and to once again someday see her on the other side. My deepest condolences to you all.
Doug Boughton
Judy Roderick
To the family of James and Charla Tomany. You have my deepest sympathy in this time of loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you through the coming days and weeks.
tom
Please accept my deepest sympathy. She was too young to leave us.
Doug and Amy Roper
We are so terribly sorry. We will miss Muggy’s generous spirit and laugh. Mike and Muggy were the perfect couple, they complimented each other. Our deepest sympathy to Mike and her kids and grandkids.
Joan and Hans Dirkson
Hans and I would like to offer our deepest sympathy to you and your family! Mug haad a spirit I see in few people and that will truly be missed. She will always be in our hearts. Mike, you and your family are in our thoughts and our prayers and if there is anything you need, we are here. Love to you all in this time of sorrow. Hans and Joan
Carolyn & Brian Lemoine
Mike, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Muggy was a such a great person with a huge heart and an even bigger smile!
Love and hugs!!
Carolyn & Brian
E. John and Leona Anastasi
To Mike and family we extend our deepest sympathy for your loss. Muggy was one of the most up beat energetic woman we knew. Her love of driving and horses was shared with everyone. She has touched our hearts and souls.
Love to all of you and as “Muggy” would say, “trot on”
John and Leona Anastasi
Bill Warrem
Mike, I’ve been home past 6 weeks on medical leave and just got the sad news from Brian Murphy in Chem Ops. What a tragic act of nature and loss to you and your dear family. While I’m sure her physical presence will be missed, memories of her love will hopefully help you all through this difficult time.
Take care,
Bill Warren
Beth & Ken Melzen
To the entire Tomany and Libera clans❗
I can hear Muggy’s laugh. It’s one of the great things I remember about her. A great person from great families. She is now that angel on your shoulders that someone else mentioned. All these tributes are so right on! Love and prayers being sent your way during this tragic time of loss. May your memories of her keep you strong
Donna Lynch
Please accept my sincere sympathy at Mug’s passing. I will always remember seeing her walk her two dogs (one very large and one very small!) on her trip to the post office. May your own memories help to bring you comfort in the days ahead.
Catherine (Tomany) Laverty
Our dearest Muggy, we hold you very close in our hearts. Our lives have been enriched by your gentle, fun presence and we simply cannot let you go. You are here when we paint with the children, you are here when we wander around Carlingford Castle, you are here when we jump the stepping stones in Tollymore Forest park and you are here when we have eaten too much chilli cheddar cheese and our mouths have gone numb!! We are privileged to have known you and treasure the good times…you are all around.
Jim Marhan
Our family’s thoughts and prayers go out to the family of Muggy. Her husband Mike is a great guy and we in the USCRA miss him and wish him the Lord’s presence at this time of overwhelming grief.
With much sorrow,
Jim and Kathi Marhan
Gus & Laurie King
We were so saddened to hear that Muggy passed away so tragically. Our deepest sympathy goes out to you Michael, and your family.
Love, Gus & Laurie
Mark S. Gibson
My deepest condolences to Mike and Family on this tragic loss.
Sincerely,
Mark S. Gibson
Jeanmarie and Glenn Chartier
We are so sorry for your loss..You are all in our thoughts and prayers. May God wrap his arms around you and hold you tight.
Charity (Sheldon) Grzelecki
Aaron and James,
I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. She definitely raised two very kind boys.
Hugs to both of you.
Charity (Sheldon) Grzelecki
Kay & Ron Konove
Remembering Muggy for her beautiful smile and quiet kindness. Our hearts go out to Mike and family.
Kay & Ron Konove
Linda Sheldon
James and family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May you hold your precious memories close to your heart
Karen Binette
We are so saddened by the loss of Mrs. Tomany. She was such a dynamic teacher! She helped children and their parents transition into the MRFES system. She taught in a way that made children love to learn. Abby remembers Mrs. Tomany taking nature walks during the school day with the children during different times of the year. “She helped us see and appreciate beauty in nature and taught us so much without us even knowing…” She had a great laugh and all my conversations over the years with her always included something fun about her family. She truly loved all of you so much! Know she has touched thousands of lives and our lives are better for having known her!
Karen, Ron, Abby and Emmy Binette
Stephen Heacock
Muggy was always cheerful and young at heart. Muggy was more excited, more than any of my family members about hearing that Rose and I were getting married in 1985. This left a big impression on us. We are glad that we got to see her in 2012 enjoying her trip to Maine.
Stephen Heacock & Rosa Hernandez
Rich Barger
Mike,
I am so sorry for your loss. The few times I met Muggy, whether at Burke Mountain, the races or at other events not recallable currently, I was impressed with her obvious warm, upbeat, inclusive personality, and the zest for life’s adventures which you and she shared in so many different ways. May the memories of this beautiful person be forever cherished by you and your family.
Rich Barger
John and Tammy Harris
Mike – shocked to see the news. I misread the notice in the Courant, and Tam and I went up to Valade’s this afternoon, and am truly sorry for the screwup. I wanted to express my condolences in person, not by e-mail.
If there is anything you can think of I may be able to help you with, just ask. As you know, I am retired now, so have more time.
John and Tammy
Jennifer (Strong) Groff
Mr. Tomany, Aaron, James,
I learned of Mrs. Tomany’s passing through Mrs. Vercelli. I had been home recently, first time in about five years because of deployments. I had spent some time driving around and taking in all the changes in CT. I passed the house and was tempted to stop and say hi. But so much time has passed, I thought it would be odd. Now, I ‘m sorry I didnt stop to see if you were home.
I pray your hearts will find peace in time and the memories will one day heal your broken hearts.
Jen & Kevin Groff& zoo
Sandy White
Mike & family, I am so very sad to hear this news. She certainly made a difference in so many lives and will never be forgotten. It was a privilege to know her. You are in my prayers and thoughts.
Sandy White
Daryle and James Clark
Dear Mike and Family,
Jim and I are so saddened by your loss. We learned of this tragic event only after the services for Muggy were held. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We will miss her wonderful enthusiasm for driving and life in general. She touched many lives with the children she taught over the years. We hope that your heavy hearts are lifted by thoughts of all the wonderful times your shared. These memories are what give us comfort and strength in the days ahead.
Daryle and Jim Clark
Barbara Bergman
Dear Mike and family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Muggy had a heart of gold and touched many lives in her short lifetime. We will all miss her. You and your family are in my thoughts.
Barbara Bergman
Carl Dauphine
Rest in peace Marguerite. I never knew you but saw your name in the book The Beatles Lyrics, edited by Hunter Davies. It seems Paul McCartney used the back of an envelope you sent to John Lennon in 1966 to write down the lyrics to his song “Good Day Sunshine.”