Lori (Oatley) Altdorf of Brooklyn CT, passed away suddenly on Friday, November 14, 2014 , at the age of 52. Born in Putnam, she was the daughter of Herbert Oatley and the late Jacqueline Oatley.
She leaves behind two cherished daughters, Shawna and Karissa Altdorf whom she loved so dearly.
Lori enjoyed the beach, traveling, spending time with her family and being with her dog Snookie. Lori was employed at Classic Pizza and enjoyed working with the staff and served the public for over 30 years making many friends over time. She was a kind , loving and very generous person.
She was an organ donor and even in death she was still able to give to others.
Lori leaves behind Francisco Hernandez whom she cared very deeply for, a sister Roberta Flaherty, a brother Herb Oatley, Jr. and his wife Karen, a sister Michele Klein and her husband Alan, a brother Michael Oatley and his wife Monique, her former husband Ron Altdorf and Karissa’s friend Jon Houser . She will be missed by her nieces and nephews Bridget, Colleen, Brad, Gary, Emily, Allyson, Jordan, Alyssa, Jake , Brooke, Raymond and precious baby Ryleigh.
Relatives and friends are invited to a Mass at St. James Church, 12 Franklin Street, Danielson, CT. Thursday November 20, 2014 at 11:00am. Flowers may be sent to the church. Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to the Gilman Funeral Home. For memorial guestbook please visit www.GilmanAndvalade.com
Uncle Alan, Jordan, Alyssa and Jake
To Shawna, Karissa, Poncho and our entire family, We are all deeply touched and saddened by the loss of Lori our loving Aunt and special Sister-in-law. She never forgot us and we will never forget her. Her generosity and compassion for others will live on in so many ways.
Teresa Ducharme
Jim and I are so very saddened. To all of her family, loved ones, and friends know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. I worked with Lori years ago at the G. Greek. Through the years, we’ve run into each other “here and there” she was always warm and friendly; one simply knows a when in the presence of a beautiful soul.
Linda Chambers Girard-Beck
Sorry for your loss. I am a friend of Nancy Mazzarella and remember the Oatley twins from Elm Street Area. Keeping your family in our prayers.
Chuck and Kelly McClure
“Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal”. We are truly sorry for your loss. Lori was always so kind and loving, especially to our daughter Keira. We will miss her dearly. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Pamela Fillmore
My condolences to Lori’s family during this difficult time.
Death leaves a heartache
No one can heal;
Love leaves a memory
No one can steal.
Jay Chelo
Dear Pancho and Altdorf Family,
Please accept our heartfelt condolences on the loss of Lori. Lori was a great person. You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.
Sincerely,
Jay Chelo and Family
Deb Merrill
My sincere condolences to all of Lori’s family. I was shocked to hear of her passing.
I worked with Lori for many years at the Golden Greek. She was a delight.
She will always be a “Golden Girl” to me.
Deb Merrill(formerlyMagalis Gignac)
Janet Geer
I remember Lori as a loving mother to two charming little girls.
Sincere sympathy to Shawna and Karissa.
Martha Bailey
I just heard about Lori and my heart goes out to all of her dear loved ones. Please find hope and comfort in God’s promise that one day all those asleep in death who are in his memory will live again, only in perfect health and under much better world conditions. (John 5:25; Psalm 37:29)
Sincerely,
Martha Bailey
Sharon
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On Nov 18, 2014, at 7:03 PM, Sharon Hawes wrote:
Lori and I became friends when our daughters were in the same Kindergarden class at school. Karissa and Delaney made many memories for myself and family as I’m sure it did for them as well. Lori was much more active as a volunteer Mom which I admired and appreciated . She kept one eye on Shawna and Karissa and could somehow focus both eyes and attention to all! When unable to be in two places at once, Ron and Lori made sure both were covered. I remember the dance and gymnastic classes and soccer games Lori and and I shared with Karissa and De. After middle school the girls went to different high schools but we stayed in contact. We both were waitstaff at different locations. Around 2006 I was looking for employment and Lori suggested I apply at Mozzarellas where she worked as Asst Mgr. I applied and was hired. Karissa and Shawna worked there as well under the watchful eye of Lori. She was a role model there for the them, instilling good worth ethics, caring for customers as though they were friends, which many of hers became. Then Delaney joined the team at Mozzarella!!! She again did the trick with one eye! Lol We had good times and memories all working there, thanks to Lori. Karissa and Shawna left to pursue their education and aspirations which Lori helped and inspired them to do. This is when Poncho became a staple in Lori’s life and created great memories together at Christmas parties, NYE parties and more. After Lori left Mozzarella’s, Poncho, Delaney and I were all saddened, along with customers and other coworkers. After that I always looked forward to Lori’s visits, especially with Snookie! My family and I were in shock hearing of Lori’s death and still struggling with the idea. Our Deepest Sympathies and Love go out to Karissa, Shawna, Poncho and her family. You may be gone but you’ll always be remembered. Rest in peace Lori.
Deb Rhodes Couture
I’m so sorry for your loss, the world has lost one of one of the nicest people I have known. I have known Lori since we were children and I don’t think she has ever had an evil bone in her body. I’m sure that heaven welcomed her with open arms. It is so sad to lose at this point in her life. My heart goes out to her girls in this time of sorrow but know she did love you with everything she had in her to give.
Patty Evans
We said goodbye to a beautiful person today, and way too early than we should of had to. Lori & I met working at the Marketplace Restaurant, we started dating our future husbands who also worked there, Greg & Ron. We spent time dancing at Michael’s Disco, having the best New Year’s Eve parties at Ron’s and going to Hampton beach together, even in the dead of winter. We would do silly things like draw hearts in the sand & just walk & talk for hours. Rest in peace my dear friend. My thoughts, prayers & love go out to your family.
Maura Higginson
Was so very shocked and saddened to see Lori’s obituary. I worked with Lori many years ago at the Greek and was always happy to bump into her at her later places of employment. Lori was such a kind, sweet, helpful woman, who loved her daughters very much. I am so very sorry for you great loss. The world is less bright. May you find comfort in her love for you and your memories.
Norman Berman
Sincere condolences from Sheri Abrams and Norm Berman and on behalf of the Board of Directors of Temple Beth Israel Preservation Society.