1965 – 2020
Danielson – Kathleen “Kathy” (Crandall) Aubin, beloved wife of Dave Aubin lost her battle with lung cancer Saturday, September 19, 2020 at noon. She was determined to pay her respects to her family for the loss of John Firlick (her brother in law and the man who officiated our wedding in 2013), she stopped living shortly after.
Kathy was such a great person to be with, my best friend, my fishing and clamming partner, winters were embraced skiing together. Soulmates…what a great life we enjoyed!
Halloween was her favorite holiday, she loved decorating and dressing up to hand out candy. She was well known for her little yellow 67 Volkswagen Beetle. Born Kathleen Louise Crandall to parents (both deceased) John Crandall, Sr and Wanda (Pasternak) Crandall in Lackawanna, New York on Thanksgiving Day November 25, 1965. She was their “Butterball.” Kathy was the youngest of five, Dianna (and late John Firlik) of Sterling, John Jr and wife Carol of Plainfield, David and wife Lori of Central Village and Steven Crandall of Moosup. Also, many nieces and nephews.
Kathy graduated from Plainfield High, also QVCC where she was certified as a Vet Asst. and UConn as a Master Gardner.
Kathy was originally married to the late Leo Aubin, Jr. They were divorced in 1998. They had a son together-Mike Aubin who with his moms never ending love and support turned out to be a fine man who I love and respect very much. Mike and I were lucky enough to be with her right to the end.
Kathy loved being outdoors and working with everyone at Hart’s Greenhouses. She also spent almost twenty-five years working for Delta Rubber Company where she made so many friends.
I would like to thank Dave Crandall (her brother) for being there at the end and driving the ambulance.
Gilman Funeral Home & Crematory, 104 Church St, Putnam, CT have been entrusted with arrangements. There will be a Celebration of Life for Kathy on Saturday, October 31, 2020 at 4:00 p.m. at Dave’s home to honor Kathy’s love of Halloween. If you’d like to, feel free to bring a bag of candy.
In lieu of flowers please consider adopting an unwanted cat or dog as Kathy could never understand why people could just turn their backs on these helpless creatures. For memorial guestbook, please visit www.GilmanandValade.com.
Mary Thomas
Steve, Dianna and family I am so sorry to read about Kathy’s passing. Can’t imagine what you are all going through. She left on her own terms and now she and John can look after each other. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.
Dave
Miss you honey more than words can express. Our little house seems so large and empty without you here. Mikey has your strength to continue enjoying his fine life with Sam, Miles and Rocco. I’m sure you will be joining us on Halloween and we will make every effort to continue our family tradition. Love you Lots n Long Time!
Steve Crandall
SMALL CRAFT ADVISORY! Sadness comes in waves, some so big they almost knock me down and I look forward to the slack tides. God, I am going to miss her so much Dave and can only imagine the pain you and Mike are suffering. I am so thankful for everything you have done for Kathy. You have truly honored the vows you made when John Firlik officially joined you two together in the presence of her closest friends and family. It is time to cherish all the good times you’ve shared….. and there are plenty of them, hold on to them strongly. I will always be here for you and Mike.
Debbie Bertorelli
Dave and Mike I am so sorry for your loss. Cathy was a person who I’ve known for along time and a beautiful person who will be greatly missed. She saw only good in everyone she encountered.
JoAnn Rainville
Dave and Mike. Thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. Kathy was a good person. Remember the good times you had. She will truly be missed by all.
Erica
I am so sorry to hear of Kathy’s passing. I worked with her for many years at Delta. She was always smiling and very pleasant. I am sure she will be missed by many. Rest In Peace Kathy ✌
Phyllis Brodeur
Dave and Mike so sorry for your loss .l worked with Kathy at delta rubber ,she was a very happy and loving girl.I remembered when she showed me her wedding ring at Harts flowers she said I never thought I would get married again she told me who she married and I said good for you she will be missed . Gob Bless Take Care
Laurie Osborn
My heart breaks reading this for each of you Dave, Steve, Dianna, her son Mike, John and David, family and friends. I am so saddened to read this… Cannot say enough about how much I liked Kathy’s fun loving personality and always looked forward to chatting with her at the mailbox. She was a ticket! I was lucky enough to enjoy a day on the boat with her years ago, what a fond memory now of someone so very full of life. For someone so small, her presence and boisterousness would light up a room. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Bonnie
My sincerest condolences to the Aubin and Crandall families, my heart breaks for you. Kathy was a wonderful person and a great friend,gone too soon, and will be sadly missed . Many great memories to keep her spirit alive.
Junior n Michelle Wagoner
Kathy you will be missed and always hold a special place in my heart…thank you for sharing your love n life with my dad! To my dad n Mike you both are in my thoughts n prayers always! Junior n I send our love to all who have loved Kathy may God give you comfort durning this time!
Joyce Hart
Our deepest sympathies to Dave and family from all of us at Hart’s Greenhouse
Kathy will be sorely missed by all of us , she was a fun loving , generous and all around amazing person. We all are richer in spirit for having known her. Rest In Peace dear Kathy. ❤️
Dave Aubin
Actually our annual Halloween is at Kathy’s home, please wear a mask and try your best to social distance. House will be off limits due to Covid, but porta potti will be available along with snacks n fire for adults after candy is handed out. Bring a folding chair if you are going to visit.
Thank you,
Dave Aubin n familes
Robin
Such beautiful words to honor and remember an amazing woman I have been blessed to call my neighbor and friend. Life’s just not the same without you here.
Robert Desrosiers
Dave, l am so sorry for your loss,Kathy was wonderful person.
Deanne
Sadly I didn’t not know Kathy but in reading what you wrote, I wish I did. Condolences to you and your family and I will be praying for all of you